March 2011

So the months of this year are moving by quickly I have been in school for 2 months now. I am doing amazing I have a 3.0 but after my test today I'm not so sure because I know I did not do well. But Bob has been watching all that I have been doing and has become very interested in it and has now signed up for school as well. I will be graduating in October of this year I am very proud and can not wait. I have already received to state qualifications at school it made me very proud. We have been doing weekly massages to relieve the stress of all the craziness with Bobs divorce I can see he just wants it over so we can move on it seems to overwhelm us because we had planned on getting married in August we have decided that whenever we do it will be fine. I already have my dress so it will be ready I will post pics of it I love it so much it is so fairy tale wedding dress. Kayla is getting so big its hard to believe she will be 3 in 2 months.Kayla just got a wonderful new play place for the backyard. We have so many things planned for the next few months we have been busy bodies and will be for quite awhile. We will being going to Ohio in April to see my father who after 25 years I found and got great news from the DNA test that he was my father. So I will be meeting him for the first time. We wont have much time so we will not be seeing anyone but him and all his family. We have been slowly finishing the back yard. Meika is loving that playing in the dirt. It is really all coming together. We have slowly acquired a lot of the home furnishing we need and the blank walls have begun to fill up with pictures and decorations it feels great to finally make a home with someone I truly want to share my life with. We have had so much fun the past few months so many things we have done we seem to take as much time as we can to do fun things my favorite is the glow in the dark bowling we do on Friday nights. We are trying as well to join a bowling league it was something I did growing up and Bob did as well its in our blood. My ball had to get drilled so my fingers fit in it and got my name put on it. It is a really colorful ball I ordered a pair of converse bowling shoes how awesome is that. We also have been trying to make plans to go to the wildlife zoo with Kayla it is about 2 miles away from us. We are also trying to plan a Vegas Trip for some time this summer. We have also invested in Season passes for the water park so if anyone wants to come visit we have family and friend tickets! So moving along Bob has been doing so much lately he has been brainstorming on many ideas for the back yard and our house. He has been helping Kayla grow a garden he planted tomatos and several different flowers with her in the backyard. He has started to build a pond for fish in the backyard with Kayla so she can have fishy's. He will be started school for Medical Billing on the 23 of this month he really became so interested when he was doing it with me and helping me with my homework he saw how good he was at it!!. It makes me so proud of him for going back to school I know he would have finished before if he wouldn't have been distracted with things. But its a different situation now and has me to love and support him. He has decided that once he is done with school for Medical Billing he is going to go for Cooking so he can be a chef because he is such a great cook. I see have incredibly he has changed since we have distanced our self's from everyone the drama has completely died down and we are much more comfortable now. I love that we can just do things and worry about each other and not have to listen to everyone else thoughts it only each others that matter. He has been doing alot more things and I think as long as we stick to our family things will be great. I'm glad to have someone to call my other half and know that he is all I want and the man I will spend the rest of my life with. Its sad that we have had to cut some family out I don't want it that way and never did. I guess thats what happens though some people cant see the good in other people. I have always given people a chance until they do wrong or prove that they are unworthy of my chances. But I am just rambling on now so everything is amazing I wish alot of other people could have been along for the ride but everyone makes there own choices and even if they are the wrong ones its to late to fix or correct them so we must move on and be thankful for the great and amazing people we have in our lives. I am truly thankful for my wonderful Fiance who has always supported and been there for me (well most of the time he was lol). I truly hope everyone is good and are happy with all the choices they have made with their loved ones. Until Next Time Future Mrs. Robert Meadows. I will post pics next time just wanted to give a little update.